"Remembering and not thinking is worse, no?"

Remembering and acting in such a way that hurt her wife, with the ignoring, the perceived dismissal? She kisses her temple, chaste in the affection given the public setting, and gently nudges her Rani forward. "Go. Be with your family."

The tone makes it clearer that that is not a dismissal, that she will willingly accompany, but offering the chance to catch up with her family.